Navigating Feminine Power: A Personal Journey of Strength, Softness, and Partnership

Growing up surrounded by strong, opinionated, and assertive women, I proudly inherited their leadership traits—traits that have shaped my strength, determination, and courage. In my marriage, I stand side by side with my husband, leading our family with pride and in full partnership. While our culture often celebrates strength as a symbol of power in these modern times, I've come to realize that there exists a quieter, equally potent force calling my name.

Recently, my sons shared an observation that prompted deep reflection and conversation. They pointed out that my approach to physical touch with my husband often reflected more masculine qualities—forceful and demanding. This revelation sparked numerous conversations with my husband and friends about femininity, prompting a quest for a gentler power without compromising my authentic self. While I'm not looking to change my entire personality, I am open to exploring the softer facets of myself as I embrace feminine power.

In our podcast, I delve more into the details of this journey, and my husband posed a thought-provoking question: "What does it look like to step into your feminine power?" This question became a catalyst for the exploration of three key areas that I am actively embracing to cultivate a more balanced perspective of power.

Vulnerability:

• Embracing vulnerability has become a cornerstone of my journey. It's about acknowledging and sharing my authentic self, recognizing that vulnerability is not a weakness but a profound strength. I aim to create spaces where others can find solace in their vulnerability and discover the power it holds.

Softness:

• The realization that my touch was considered too forceful led me to explore a softer approach. Softness, in both words and actions, holds a unique power that fosters deeper connections and understanding. I am learning how to maintain my loud and assertive nature while learning to infuse it with grace and kindness. The goal isn’t to become a different person but to adapt and evolve into someone who can operate from feminine power as well.

Support:

• Stepping into feminine power involves acknowledging that strength lies not only in independence but also in seeking and offering support. I am actively cultivating a mindset that values collaboration and mutual empowerment. Sharing this aspect of my journey on our podcast, I hope to inspire others to embrace the supportive nature inherent in feminine power.

This journey is a continuous exploration of the delicate balance between strength and softness. Through vulnerability, softness, and support, I am uncovering the nuanced power that comes with embracing my feminine energy. Join me on this quest to redefine power, one that resonates with authenticity, partnership, and the unwavering courage to be true to oneself.